According to Iyanla Vanzant on her
shows, I have come to accept the following facts that may be responsible for the
shameful and disrespectful behaviors of some sisters towards brothers:
1) Many sisters never had a dad, so
they are frustrated about how to attract and keep a husband.
2) Some have given up on the husband
search, so they just disrespect any brother they think they want, but cannot
have.
3) Some are intentionally
disrespectful to demand attention with the hope that the disrespected brother
(probably without a dad) would come for them to calm them down.
4) Some may be envious and jealous of
your apparent success, especially if their baby-daddy and sons are not doing
well.
5) Feminism may also be a factor used
to convince themselves that they are independent and do not need a man.
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