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According to a recent Yale University
report on ABC News Nightline, 42% of Black women have never been married. In
AC360 on CNN, the U.S. Census states that about 30% of Black Women are married.
Black women make about 12% of the women population in America.
I have always wondered why most Black
women never got married, where not in any stable relationship for long, and if
they had somebody, it was usually the kind of guy most mothers will tell their
sons never to associate with. I always thought it was a cultural decision in
order to have a cheap self-pride of being strong and independent.
With time and observation, I have
come to realize that the issue was more economical than cultural. The average
Black woman knows that it is more beneficial for her to be single than to have a
husband. While many educated Black men find it hard to rise above unemployment
or lack of steady income that matches their status, the lesser educated ones
know how to make a living even if it is illegal, leads to short life expectancy,
or brings incarceration. So it is better to have short term relationships with
thugs and not worry about the masculine symptoms of unemployment that could be
physical abuse, alcoholism, drug use, suicide, and depression. Despite the fact
that the thugs may not be around for long, they fulfill their masculine needs
without the emotional and psychological ties of having a husband.
While the educated man, despite
irregular income, may be smart enough to legally fight for children and get
child support in some states, the thug is just a sexual being dispensable with
time. If educated Black men are given the chance to work and get their fair
income, Black marriages and stable homes will increase drastically because more
Black men will start going to school to reap the benefits. Until then, many
Black women will remain single because many Black men, educated or not, will
eventually fall into the symptoms of unemployment to become the cheap laborers
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The Political & Spiritual Purpose of the
Holy Land
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