There was a time when it became cool not to marry.  Just get a girl pregnant, let her raise the child, and you go off and get the next girl pregnant.  Not only that, you could even get pregnant for different men and not be married to any of them at any given time.  No one came out to condemn this on a large scale or even get the government to pass laws against these acts, and challenge people to become more responsible in the way they live.  Instead, the government started a welfare program to assist mothers without husbands.  This looked like a good thing, but it only made the women more comfortable to reproduce more and marry less.  In fact, in many home of people of color, they could not even vote at the time not to talk of securing meaningful jobs to take care of a family.  Many African-American men for example, had no access to good education, could not own property for investment, could not read to understand the laws of the land, and they could not even sit in front of the bus or enter a restaurant not to talk of seeking economic assistance from the government.  Women everywhere love to have their own children.  It is their God given right to procreate.  It was obviously more sensible get a reliable and regular welfare check than to rely on a man that has being handicapped by his own government for the sustenance of her children.

Before long, single women homes became the vogue.  Many had to stay that way permanently because when a social caseworker came to your house unexpectedly and find a man living there or evidence of his presence, she will have to forfeit her welfare benefits because he can go get a good paying job, which we all know did not exist for him.  Now, the children of some of those who created the financial and economic segregation laws that lead to the ungodly creation of single mother homes are becoming single mother and procreating fathers themselves.  This is because the pain that grew out of the feminist movement has taught many women that the ability to raise children on their own without their fathers is an obvious sign of strength, independence, and success.

Soon the feminist ideology convinced the legal system to create a child support system, which will make men responsible for their children.  This is a great law to discourage unnecessary reproduction outside of marriage.  The man is made to pay about 25% of his income before taxes per child and the payment was deducted before he even saw his check.    If he had more children, he paid more but at a low percentage per additional child.  Thanks to the government for making an attempt but it was not an effective and efficient effort.  The courts were more interested in making sure they did not have to pay for the welfare of the children than making sure the child was well taken care off.  So they deduct the money from the man’s check and give it to the mother of the child, instead of working with the man to direct the money into proper use for the child’s development.  For instance, he can choose an established and credible private school to send his child to, register the child in a very good after school program while the mother is still at work to learn musical, mental, social, and academic skills, and be required to see his child frequently while a certain amount is spent on clothes, outings, and school materials. 

Now, the women have turned the courts negligence into a thriving business among many African-American women.  I know of some girls with high GPAs that have dropped out of college because they succeeded in reproducing for a man that has money.  I know of girls that intentionally reproduce for three different men because it is more lucrative than having three children for one man.  It is better to get 25% from each of the three men for 18 years that to get maybe 55% from one man with three children.  Many of them have even used the fear of child support to prevent men who are not already paying through the courts from having other relationships.  This is because the courts make it mandatory and regular or you go to jail.  The saddest part of it all is that the money hardly goes to the child, it mostly goes to the woman and her friends to show how much power she really has.  Some men are still paying for children they have not seen for years because their mother took them to undisclosed location to punish him and the courts does not care.  They buy cars, latest clothes, while some invest their children’s money in their business.  No one is speaking against this evil and the courts could care less.   

Now, some of the women who benefited from these wicked laws many years ago have had to watch other women do it to their sons and grandsons.  When the laws were being made they refused to speak up because they were not men or they enjoyed the power women derived from it.  Now, their own descendants, despite the huge income they make, can only live in apartments or a friend’s house and can not happily provide for their mothers on anniversary days.  There is nothing wrong in paying child support, but the business of it has discouraged marriage and the proper care of a child by both parents.  Instead, it has increased teenage and unwanted pregnancies, and has almost eliminated the joy of children as a blessing to their fathers.  Some men simply see their children not as an offspring, but as an unwanted mortgage or a payment for a car that has been stolen.  Remember, that it is the bad apples in the barrel that makes the good apples become bad apples and never the other way around.  A true society should be a society that makes laws to benefit all without negligence and not to benefit a certain race, religion, gender, or creed.  When evil laws are passed or an immoral and unjust culture becomes the norm somewhere, we must fight it fast or else, we all will pay for it somehow.  If not us, our children will.